black widow(er) effect

[David Dalton]

Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
(man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.

And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)

One example of this, that I intuited with my past matchmaking
ability, is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his
current wife, who is bimT.

[stephan Beyer]

Post by David Dalton
Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
(man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.
And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)
One example of this, that I intuited with my past matchmaking
ability, is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his
current wife, who is bimT.
--
https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page)
“‘Then you saw me from the cathedral/Well I'm an ancient heart/Yes,
you saw me from the cathedral/And here we are just falling apart" (T.T.)

people love to try to trigger people to ignore the big picture. . .proxy war capitalism and occupation may be bigger issues then what 2 guys do.

[David Dalton]

Post by stephan Beyer

Post by David Dalton
Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
(man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.
And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)
One example of this, that I intuited with my past matchmaking
ability, is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his
current wife, who is bimT.

people love to try to trigger people to ignore the big picture. . .proxy war
capitalism and occupation may be bigger issues then what 2 guys do.

But when all is well, including compatible relationships, in
the bedroom, that will be reflected in society.

And of course a gay man is compatible with another gay man
or a bim or a gayT or a bimT, and relations between them
are thus not an abomination, if that wasn’t clear in my
thread-originating post.